DIVORCED!

DIVORCED!

Once again...Tom Cruise gets a divorce....for the third time....
the first victim or survivor was Mimi Rogers, then we had Nicole Kidman, and now Katie Holmes....
they divorced from Tom Cruise at the age of 33, all three of them...........

and this is the absolute anti-publicity for Divorce....

Stars have divorced their partners 3 - 5 times. Miss Liz Taylor was married 7 or 8 times.
I haven't heard of anyone having an annulment more than once.....I could be wrong of course......
The current crop of stars get married and get divorced after a week or 2.....
and this is because it is so easy to get a divorce....
and they get married knowing how easy it will be to get a divorce once things don't work out...so not much thought is given to the sanctity of marriage and the real love and sacrifice that should go with it......
When you make it extremely easy for married couples to separate....they will not go the extra mile to fix their relationship once a problem creeps in....
They will not fight for their love and their family......and eventually the kids will suffer....
No amount of expensive psychoanalyzing will make kids understand why their parents separated.....
They may pretend that they do...but that's just because they love us more than we love them....and they want to make us feel good about our tragic mistake.

The promoters of The Divorce Bill will tell us, that making the law will not force anyone to get a divorce.....
I can say the same thing for illegal drugs....
It's presence does not force anyone to use it....but we want it off the streets, because it's effect on the individual and his family is really debilitating....
Divorce and separation is the same.....it's effect on a family, esp. on the kids can never be quantified...
It can only be described as destructive and even infectious.....as those coming from broken homes become excellent candidates to lead a broken home themselves, believing it to be normal to separate or get a divorce.....
So yes, it's effect is as, if not more, debilitating than illegal drugs.....
Divorce, annulment and separation destroys your family....
it destroys your kids image or picture of what a family should be.....
you make them believe a lie.....that love is not to meant to last forever.....
and if you indeed believe this...
then you deserve my sympathy....
it must be an ugly world that you live in!