Scolding our kids....Loving our kids!
Last night, I tried
teaching Lizzie her Chinese assignments...not feeling so well, my
patience was quite limited, and Lizzie was having a problem writing one
of the chinese characters, and I raised my voice to her, and she cried
and hugged me and said " I love you daddy." ...Then Achie Nicole took
over teaching her.
Afterwards, I took a book and I called her
over and I said..."Time to read a book baby!" ..and she went to me
excitedly, I read to her until she fell asleep with her head on my
shoulders and with a lovely smile on her face.....I could not allow the
day to end with my baby feeling that I don't love her anymore....
Each time I have to scold my kids, I feel very bad afterwards....I know
it's necessary to correct them and lecture them, sternly at times, but I
still feel bad, and I make it a point to remind them about how much I
love them......
That is why I am appalled at stories of parents
beating their children black and blue...sometimes just for being noisy
and curious.....
I can understand the occasional spanking ( I
don't do it, but I understand parents who do it), but the beating,
sometimes even with the use of objects, and the swearing and the
cursing....how can some parents talk to their kids that way? .....
A reminder to all parents....we can scold our kids, but they are
supposed to be curious, they can be noisy, they can even be naughty at
times, but whatever it is...they do not deserve to beaten and please do
not swear or say "bad words" to them....your children will be a member
of the society, and if they are to be useful, decent and respectable
members of society, we have to train them and show them the way.....it
will be extremely difficult for a good fruit to come from a rotten seed
or a broken tree!
So when you've scolded your child....make
sure you make them feel that you love them still....don't let your day
end without a hug, a kiss and words of encouragement and love...do it
for yourself....do it for your kids!
Again...God bless all parents....and God bless our kids!
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