I am not going to pretend to understand what a
parent with a special child feels....I will never do that, nor do I
plan to lecture them on what to do...I am just here to tell you a
story....
More than 10 years ago when I was just starting with
my medical practice and before my first clinic was burned down...I
would often be called to make a special house call to a very special
patient....her name was "Angel". She was an angel to the family she
lived with.
When Angel's mother was pregnant with Angel, a neighbor,
a couple, knowing how difficult it had become for Angel's parents, to
raise their children, for they had so many...offered to adopt Angel. Her
parents agreed. So it was a done deal.
When the baby came out...she
had "hydrocephalus" or she had fluid inside her head...no exact
treatment was advised except the usual shunts and a promise of possible
surgery when she's older. The neighbors, or the couple, who promised to
adopt her....fulfilled their promise and adopted her...and they named
her Angel.
When I first met Angel, she was almost 2 years old,
she could not turn her head anymore as it was had grown as big as a
watermelon, she couldn't see, because there was a mass on her nose that
was pulling her eyes to the middle. But Angel, every time I saw her, had
a smile on her face. I was called in for the minor problems like cough,
colds, abdominal pains.
What was so wonderful about this couple who
adopted her, was that they never treated her as a burden or
"pabigat"...they were poor, they lived in a very small house, near
shanties, but they endeavored to get an air-condition for Angel and the
father had to work double time. I would speak to them about Angel and
her future...and they would tell me, that they had spoken to the experts
and were informed of her life expectancy....but they said they didn't
care, they would cherish every moment they spend with Angel...and that
not even for a single moment, did they ever regret adopting
Angel....They said she was heaven sent and that she had filled their
house and their hearts with love.
I would always leave their
house teary-eyed as I had grown very fond of Angel, I felt so sad for
the couple because I knew they would lose Angel.....but I was also
thankful to have met people like them...
Angel, who always had a smile on her face....her smiles made me smile as well.
Her parents who are just heroes as far as I'm concerned....2 of the most wonderful people I've ever known...
After the fire, I lost touch with this remarkable family....I pray that God had fulfilled all of their most fervent wishes.
Again...no lectures here....just a remarkable love story!
God bless all of us.
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